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This is my favorite week of the year. Maybe it’s just me, but I see and feel Jesus more in Thanksgiving than I do in the busyness and commercialization of Christmas. How about you?

Regardless of your answer, know this. This week can change your life. This week can change others lives. This week is tailor-made to make a difference.

So, here are a few suggestions for giving thanks:

  1. Send a hand written note to your boss thanking him/her in a genuine and appropriate manner.
  2. Do the same for your President/CEO or location leader. No matter what you think, they need encouragement.
  3. Texts are easy and simple. Pick five people you work with (coworkers, customers, suppliers, partners) and tell them how grateful you are.
  4. Prayer is powerful. Pick five people you work with and thank God for them.
  5. Read 365 Thank You’s before 2013 to be inspired to put into action saying thank you to the myriad of people in your work and personal life who bless you. 

Finally, I want to say thank you to each of you! Thank you for your desire to grow in your faith at work. To be the same person at work that you are in your personal life. To allow your work to be a testimony to others.  And, to many of you, thank you for your heart, time and resources that you have given to WorkMatters in 2012. You have no idea what your encouragement and support mean to us personally and corporately.

May you feel God’s blessings in your life and work this week. Philippians 1:3

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Have you been hurt at work?  Was it a co-worker a boss or a client? Have you had a hard time getting past it? How can you set that experience aside and move on with a positive attitude?

Have you been wronged at work?

If you’ve had an experience where someone has wronged you, you understand how it can affect you. It could’ve been a conversation that you overheard, an email that was inadvertently sent to you, a co-worker who took credit for work that you performed, or being blamed for something that you weren’t even responsible for.  When that happens, trust goes out the door, and you are left with a feeling of betrayal. If left unresolved, the problem just gets bigger in our minds and bitterness sets in.  You can kiss productivity and a positive attitude goodbye.

Hanging on to that experience only hurts you. The other person may not even realize that you are hurt. Decide right now to put this behind you.  Here are some suggestions…

  • Pray for the person who hurt you   –   It’s easy to love those who love you, but as Christians we are called to love and pray for our enemies as well. Jesus said in the Sermon on the Mount But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you. Matt 5:44.  
  • Have a reconciling spirit  –   As hard as it is, if you really want to get past this, you must have a heart for reconciliation versus retribution.
  • Don’t get even  –   “Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord.” Romans 12:19
  • Talk it out  –  “If your brother sins against you, go to him. Tell him what he did wrong. Keep it between the two of you. If he listens to you, you have won him back.” Matt 18:15
  • For your own sake, forgive  –   Remember, you don’t forgive someone for his or her sake – you forgive them for your sakeBear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” Col 3:13

 

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Are you so busy at work that you sometimes forget to thank those around you for their help? Or have you been on the other side where you worked your tail off and never received a word of encouragement or thanks?  We’ve all been in both of these situations.

Have less attitude and more gratitude in your workday!

There is so much to do during the workday. And in today’s economic times, we have to do MORE work in LESS time.  As a result, we often focus only on the tasks at hand never taking the time to thank those around us who have helped. Stop and think how much you appreciate being told “thank you” for something you’ve done, especially when you weren’t really expecting it. It feels good doesn’t it?  Conversely, imagine how you’ve felt when you bend over backwards and never receive any word of encouragement. It totally deflates your enthusiasm.

I recently read a quote that said “Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it.” It’s selfish.  I don’t think any of us wants to be characterized that way.   Having a grateful attitude and expressing it is a small thing with a huge impact.  So, give it a try and see what a difference it can make!

 Suggestions for having an attitude of gratitude:

  1. Start with a grateful heart. “Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus.” 1  Thes 5:18
  2. Don’t take others for granted. Think about what your job would be like if you had to do everything, from the smallest, seemingly unimportant tasks, to the largest.  Impossible, right?
  3. Just do it!  Sometimes I have such grandiose ideas for showing my gratitude that I never get around to expressing it. A simple, genuine “thank you” can go a long way in making those around you feel encouraged about themselves and their work.  “But encourage each other every day while it is “today.” ( Hebrews 3:13)
  4. Be intentional. Commit to have an attitude of gratitude for 30 days.  See what a difference it makes in you and in those around you!

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Have you ever had one of those days at work where you have more work than you can actually do?  And then something comes up that is totally unexpected and unplanned and throws a wrench into your plans? It could be another job assignment, someone who walks in your office who needs to talk, an unexpected phone call, or maybe a sick child.

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How do you handle interruptions?

I’m a type A person, and very task-oriented. And if I have something that needs to be done, it’s on a list.  Between my personality and my list, I’m a working machine. So you can imagine what my reaction often is when something unexpected comes up.  I’m sure I send out all the wrong signals – looking at my watch, my phone, acting perturbed, etc. Not pretty.

Today, it hit me.  Could these so called interruptions really be opportunities that God has placed in my day and He wants to see how I handle them? Ouch.

Do you have these same challenges? Are you SO focused on your work that you’re put off by God’s interruptions? Here are some suggestions to help you (and me) better handle interruptions at work.

  1. W.W.J.D – How many times do you read in the bible that Jesus would stop whatever he was doing to heal, to encourage, to show love. His day was full of interruptions, but it’s also where He had some of His greatest impact.
  2. Don’t ignore the small stuff. In Matthew 25:23 it says, “You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things.” If God presents a situation and I ignore it, how can He trust me with something bigger?
  3. Show compassion. “I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’’ Matthew 25:40
  4. God will redeem your time. “God will not forget your work and the love you have shown him as you have helped his people and continue to help them.” Hebrews 6:10

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There are so many things that you can do to grow as a leader. To grow in your faith. Most of them are good. But what are the things that will have the most impact? A real, lasting impact?

I was reminded of an answer to that question this week as 62 leaders committed 60 minutes to sit in a circle. Well, actually they were sitting in a rectangle around large conference room tables. 62 men and women, in five different marketplace groups, from companies across northwest Arkansas invested 60 minutes to begin a journey. For 13 weeks, they will learn biblical leadership lessons from one of the great leaders of the Bible…Nehemiah!

I received an email from one of our WorkMatters Group leaders that met at 6:00a.m. yesterday! The anticipation these women expressed was powerful.

How encouraging to see all ten chairs around the table in the Harvest board room filled with women yearning to:

  • plug into a Bible study for the first time since college
  • meet other women in business
  • learn practical ways to have my faith be part of my life at work and not be separated from the rest of my activities
  • put God first even though I’m not a morning person and it won’t be easy as a single mom

Have you considered sitting in a circle with a small group of leaders that can create a lasting impact in your life and you in theirs?

Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.  1Thessalonians 5:11

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The last seven days have yielded one of the most powerful displays of leadership that I have ever witnessed. Even if you are not a sports fan, you have likely heard the recent saga of University of Arkansas Football Coach Bobby Petrino. While  there are undoubtedly critical lessons we need to learn from Coach Petrino’s story, the REAL leadership story is found in University of Arkansas Athletic Director Jeff Long.

This is a story of a leader who found himself in what most people described as a “no-win” situation. Jeff Long had an employee on his team who was an incredible performer. He had achieved almost superstar status from his “customers”. Revenue was at an all-time high largely due to this employee.  The national buzz was off the charts and the future looked even brighter than the past. This is a story that  we often see in the marketplace, isn’t it? As the leader, what do you do?  The only thing riding on the decision is the psyche of a state, a potential national championship and the near-term future of the University of Arkansas.

A good case could be made for forgiveness with discipline. Let’s keep the train on the tracks. Let’s do what most other leaders do. Let’s do what the “world” tells us to do. That is NOT what Jeff Long chose to do.

I have included the full press conference here. If you haven’t seen it, please take time to watch it. You will be amazed. If you have seen it, I encourage you to watch it again. But this time, watch it with your leadership eyes. Go to school on what you see here from a courageous leader.

Here’s a sampling of the leadership lessons I learned:

  1. Integrity - Doing the right thing, is never the wrong thing.
  2. Wisdom and Courage - have the wisdom to know what to do, and the courage to do it.
  3. Compassion - his heart is deeply connected to the mission. He hurt for everyone who lost in this situation (especially the players).
  4. Details - a great leader is willing to understand and execute.
  5. Decisiveness - his assuredness created a persuasive confidence in the masses.
  6. Vision - communicating the future state with confidence creates emotion and commitment.
  7. Choices - as leaders we face them everyday. Are we willing to do the right thing no matter what the outcome?
  8. Excuses – it was never about Jeff Long. You can only imagine the turmoil he went through. 
  9. Passion - do we really care about the mission and purpose of our work? 
  10. Influence - last…our work is a platform for influence. Jeff Long made the hard choice. The by-product is an impact in thousands of peoples lives that you can have honor and integrity.
Thanks Jeff…for giving us hope. For allowing your life at work to be a bright light for the rest of us.

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We are blogging this month on the first of  Seven PillarsRelationship. Specifically, how we can walk with God all day, every day, but especially in our work. But it’s hard, isn’t it? The menial tasks. The grind. Deadlines. Worry. Money…and the list goes on.

But God calls us to see it differently, doesn’t he?  He calls us to see our work as a blessing, not a curse. To understand that our work is a mission, or at least it can be if we let it. To treat our work as worship to Him.

Do you need some inspiration to see a higher purpose in walking with God at work? Watch this video. Watch it to the end because it’s the last five minutes that really matter.

Now…what do you do with what you just witnessed?

How can your life and your work have deeper meaning?

What does your relationship with God look like now?

It’s up to you…

“His master replied, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!’  Matthew 25:23

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Some quick encouragement for your week…

I have been meeting weekly with a friend whose work choices put him in a really bad place. This scripture is powerful for him, but for all of us, as well. Wrap your arms around this. Claim it for your work week!

Do you not know? 
Have you not heard? 
The LORD is the everlasting God, 
the Creator of the ends of the earth. 
He will not grow tired or weary, 
and his understanding no one can fathom.

He gives strength to the weary 
and increases the power of the weak.

Even youths grow tired and weary, 
and young men stumble and fall;

but those who hope in the LORD 
will renew their strength. 
They will soar on wings like eagles; 
they will run and not grow weary, 
they will walk and not be faint.

Isaiah 40:28-31

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Do you find yourself thinking about what tomorrow may bring a lot more these days?   I know that I find it harder to focus on what I need to accomplish today, wondering about how its all going to turn out for my family, my career and our country.

The workplace is a such a breeding ground for all these thoughts of uncertainty, especially given the challenging times we face politically and economically.  Our enemy is having an absolutely wonderful time distracting us and trying to snuff out our hope.  How can we continue to go to work each day and stay positive and hopeful about the future?

One of the messages I am beginning to hear coming out of this current crisis is that we must learn to live within our means and take personal responsibility for our own lifestyles.  Not that this is anything new, but its not a message that is often heard or modeled by either our government or the culture we live in.  We continually are told that we should have more…that we ought to have more comfort and convenience and that it is simply a matter of getting the latest gadget or purchasing the bigger and faster new toy.  Have we bought into this lie?

One of the only ways that I can see for us to find peace in all the turmoil is to focus deliberately and intentionally on all that we already have, thanking the Lord for our jobs, homes, families, friends and all the blessings the Lord has given us.  Most of all for the hope that we have in our Lord and Savior.

Pray for contentment. Model contentment to those around you. This is one of the greatest blessings of all and we miss out on it in our desire to either have more or to try to be in total control of our lives.

But godliness with contentment is great gain.  1 Timothy 6:6

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